Advantages of Mediation
The basic requirement for Mediation
is that all court processes whatsoever referring
to the conflict have to be untried.
Mediation can only work, if all conflict parties
are motivated to it.
It has to be clear for the conflict parties
that they are at the wheel of the deciding process. Each of them
has to be prepared to participate on this process and has to take the
responsibility of the result.
The self-responsibility of the conflict
parties in the Mediation has the following elements:
- they have to do everything in order to
realise their situation
- they have to awaken to their personal
- they have to be ready to stand for their
selves and to face up to all coming up conflicts
The duty of a Mediator is to illumine the
situation without judging or distorting them beforehand.
The readiness to stand right-up for oneself
not only demands to show the own point-of-view but also to assert oneself
against any decision which would impede for their further future.
The ability to disaccord opens the way to
Mediation only can lead to success, if the
conflict parties are prepared to work on a mutual acceptable decision.